I hear this a lot, as a matter of fact if I’m totally honest, I hear it from my own thoughts too.

Am I deserving of X?
He deserves so much better.
My kids deserve a better Mom.

You get the picture.

With PMDD out of control feeling deserving of someone that is good for you does raise a lot of questions, at least internally. A disorder does not make you undeserving of someone’s love. You do deserve to have an incredibly happy life, be a Mom if you want, have an incredible job if you want, really- Be anything you want to Be!

A disorder doesn’t change anything that we are told as we are growing up, you can still be anything you set your mind too and have what you want.

Will it be more difficult? Possibly. Of course once again, anything in life worth having is worth fighting for is what I tell my kiddos, we have to learn to believe the same thing. PMDD is exhausting so fighting for what we want is in itself exhausting and sometimes we just want to throw our hands in the air and quit. It’s not an option!

If you don’t believe you can do it on your own you are probably right, however, you don’t have to. We are a huge support group of Women with PMDD and we are standing behind you, ready to pick you up when you feel like you can’t move another muscle. Ready to let you vent so that you won’t holler at the one’s you love and then fall into the rage/guilt cycle. We get it, We live it, We will help you.

We won’t let you give excuses as to why you shouldn’t have to deal with it, but we will show you what incredible reasons why you will work on it, manage your life, get it organized and get your PMDD under control. When you can’t come up with another reason why you should fight- we will show you. We will talk to you and pull you up by your boot straps, shake you just a tad (not enough to hurt you of course :) and get you on that right track to enjoying life.

You are deserving of a healthy life, a happy life and being a PMDD advocate I am going to fight like hell to help you succeed.

You deserve the same quality of life that everyone deserves and I know that personally, I am going to fight to live the way I know that I ‘deserve’ to live!

Will you join me in this fight for living happier and healthier, even with your PMDD?